Holidays & Hosting
Shine has created a list of ideas to help incorporate your child’s help during the holidays!
Decorating & Preparing the Home
Help hang ornaments or decorations – Give clear, simple steps (“put all the red ones on this tree”).
Sort decorations by color or size – Many kids enjoy categorizing tasks that use visual strengths.
Set the table – Use a picture of the table setup to guide where items go.
Water the tree or plants – Great for responsibility and routine.
Turn lights on and off – Offer control of sensory input in a fun way.
🍪 Cooking & Food Preparation
Stir or mix ingredients – Simple, rhythmic motions can be calming.
Use cookie cutters or frosting – Encourages creativity and fine motor skills.
Place napkins, utensils, or cups – A structured and repetitive task that builds focus.
Pack food gifts or snacks – Help fill treat bags or boxes for friends and family.
Assist with cleanup – Wiping counters, stacking dishes, or sweeping small areas.
🎁 Gifts & Giving
Help wrap gifts – They can place tape, stick bows, or write gift tags.
Choose a gift for someone – Empower choice-making and empathy (“What do you think Grandma would like?”).
Deliver cards or gifts – Great for practicing social interactions in small bursts.
Make handmade cards or drawings – A sensory-friendly, low-pressure way to express affection.
Assist in sorting or organizing gifts – Arrange by name or by family member.
🧭 Organizing & Planning
Help check off the holiday to-do list – Visual checklists support executive functioning.
Count or sort supplies – Candles, napkins, or utensils.
Assist with recycling or trash – Provides a clear, purposeful job.
Set timers for transitions – Let them help manage time (“When the timer beeps, it’s time for dinner”).
Be the “light switch helper” – Turn lights on for guests or off at bedtime.
💗 Acts of Kindness & Connection
Help feed or walk the family pet – Encourages responsibility and calm sensory input.
Write or draw thank-you notes – Supports communication and gratitude.
Help donate toys or clothes – Builds empathy and generosity.
Hand out treats or cards at gatherings – A simple, positive social interaction.
Welcome guests with a practiced greeting – Supports social development and confidence.
🧩 Tips for Success
Provide visual or written instructions for each task.
Offer choices to increase engagement (“Do you want to help with cookies or gifts?”).
Use first–then language (“First we clean up, then we watch a movie”).
Celebrate small successes with praise or tokens.
Keep tasks short, structured, and sensory-friendly.